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The Bias We Pretend Doesn’t Hurt Boys (part 1)

How a Culture Built to Protect Girls Leaves Boys Unseen and Unheard

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Tom Golden
Nov 24, 2025
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Every now and then, a simple classroom exercise reveals something profound about human nature. Jane Elliott’s famous “blue-eyes/brown-eyes” experiment did exactly that. Many of you will remember it: the day after Martin Luther King Jr. was assassinated, Elliott, a third-grade teacher in Iowa, decided her students needed to understand prejudice in a way …

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