The Bias We Pretend Doesn’t Hurt Boys (part 2)
Why the Double Standard?
The Double Standard: Why Girls Get Protection and Boys Get Silence
Here is the contradiction at the heart of our culture’s approach to children:
When a stereotype harms girls, we mobilize.
When a stereotype harms boys, we rationalize.
Look again at the math example.
The message girls heard—“girls aren’t good at math”—was subtle and narrow, yet the response w…



