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When Men Hurt: Finland’s Lesson for a World That Mocks “Incels”

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Tom Golden
Aug 29, 2025
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In the late 1980s, Finland discovered something troubling. Among its highest-risk suicide groups were young men rejected from military service. At exactly the age when they were trying to prove themselves, they were branded as outsiders. Many spiraled into isolation, unemployment, and despair.

Finland’s response was striking. The Defense Forces worked wi…

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