Hey Tom, unfortunately these stories are all to common. The feminist agenda that demonises men has caused a huge gender bias from law enforcement to the “justice” system. It is hard enough dealing with the abuse from your intimate partner, but when you need support and society turns its head, that causes a whole new level of alienation which I’m sure has caused many an innocent man to end their life.
For me my wife made a false statement to police, her interview even proved her own perjury describing events differently, she should have written cheat notes on her palm. She however knew exactly how to play the gender card, even mentioning that I was a man and was much stronger than her.
The officer taking her statement was pathetic, he asked leading questions, filling in the gaps where she couldn’t describe events in any detail. More amazing was the officer needed to prepare a summary of the interview and attest to its accuracy or face perjury. In it he completely exaggerated the incident and in fact used his own leading question to describe what he thought happened, not what she actually said. Actually I quote his question and her response.
Officer: “Obviously you were standing and he pushed you on to the sofa?”
The response: “I can’t remember exactly”
But in the officers summary he claimed I grabbed the victim by both arms and threw the victim to the sofa.
Oh there is so much more. Ignoring my injuries, my counter claims and absolutely no investigation was conducted. The officer even claimed I “admitted” to pushing her into a window in my recorded interview when no such admission was made.
This summary was then sent to the prosecution as proof the allegations were valid and they could proceed with charges that had a maximum penalty of 10 years jail.
The case was then later dropped and the police ordered to pay costs when my lovely wife sent a nasty message confirming she was indeed the violent one, but she has a good reason apparently.
Now without the funds to pursue civil damages I am going through the police complaints process. I don’t want to keep my hopes up there as police in my jurisdiction investigate themselves. However since the misconduct is based on official documents all they can do is try to minimises their mistakes, but acknowledge them they must. So I guess now — anything they say or do, can and will be used against them in court — when I can afford to pay for it.
Damn. All too common indeed. Good for your for sticking with it and holding the police accountable. I wonder what the statute of limitations is for false accusations? Are you in the US?
No, I’m in the man hating capital of the world, Melbourne Australia. We have police policies littered with gynocentrist terminology because of pressure by militant feminists. One of the charges levelled against me was, recklessly causing injury of a female. No such charge exists for females which indicates in the law’s eyes assaulting a female is considered worse. Perhaps I would have even supported such a law, that is until I faced it. That is too often why men don’t stand up against this sort of thing, we are brought up to protect women and blindly support any policy that does the same until we are impacted by the very policies so many men blindly support.
Every man wants to play Big Brave White Knight in front of women in order to receive their approval. It is pathetic, but that is how we are conditioned.
Men only face the truth about women when they are impacted sufficiently that they cannot keep their eyes closed anymore.
Incredible story, Paul. Thanks so much for sharing it. My heart goes out to you completely. What an ordeal. I wouldn’t have a fraction of the strength it takes to persevere and resist in such a situation. I massively congratulate you on your strength and integrity. You’re in my prayers and I hope you carry on your just, noble, necessary fight. THANK YOU.
My sons life was completely destroyed by a false allegation. He lost custody of his son, lost his career and nearly took his life. He was found not guilty and she was found not credible. He is but one of dozens of men who she has accused of sexual assault. No consequences for her. There must be consequences for false allegations. I post this as a Me Too survivor.
WHERE were the consequences for the crime she committed against your son?
This is why I left the U.S. When some princess made spurious allegations against me, and the cops found no evidence of the allegation, there were NO consequences for the lies told by the women.
They just tra la la'd along in their privileged lives, like royalty, which is exactly what females are in the U.S. PUBLIC FUNDS were expended to investigate and resolve their lies. NO consequences, because female. Well, eff that.
The legal system essentially is a tool of the Amerikan woman. May she be judged by God for her deceit and iniquity.
No consequences! My friend James attended high school with her . He said” she has been accusing men of assault for decades. She should be in jail.” In my small Canadian community she has ruined at least a dozen men’s lives before my son was targeted and 3 more since. In court previous accusations are not admissible. Nor is her mental health status. She is obviously severely mentally ill. .
And this is the damage done by just ONE female, because their feminist societies do not hold them to consequences for their actions.
They are children, essentially. Without adult responsibility. But simultaneously they want to be -- and have been -- given authority and power over men.
I had three experiences of false allegations when I lived in the U.S. Basically, women using the feminist court system to intimidate and terrorize. Women have become experts in utilizing the legal system as a mafia enforcer against men. Both profit economically thereby.
One of the incidents resulted in (false) imprisonment. After Ms. Amerika put chains on my hands and feet for the crime of not obeying her commands, I knew I was done forever with that evil bitch.
In my adopted country I am respected, honored and even loved. Quite a change from being a walking target in the U.S. I feel bad for other men and boys still trapped in the gyno-nations.
Thank you, Tom. Most men in the US have much more than me financially and materially, but as you say, they must live without being respected and honored because their feminist nation will not allow that.
Also, they must live with the reality that they may be accused and incarcerated at any moment, merely on the whim of some female. That is a heavy price to have your own home, lawn and so forth.
I have said it before; however, it bears REPEATING: FALSE ALLEGATION should carry with it, THE SAME PUNISHMENT as the crime being FALSELY ACCUSED. There should be NO NEED to file a charge of PERJURY, as this gentleman did. It should not even require a full trial; that has already happened, only an official HEARING, with a reevaluation of evidence and complaint.
My son was falsely accused of rape. We are a "best case scenario", that is charges dismissed, but he has an arrest on his record that will never go away, while his accuser has walked away with no consequences. Like Ulysses, this has become a life's mission to raise awareness and help people who are having to deal with this. Shared. Also, check out www.theaffa.org if you want to connect.
Thank you Dawn, for sharing, and for your courage, end efforts. I just joined your fb page but wondered if you’re also on Twitter, where I can be most active re: promoting/sharing etc etc? I couldn’t find the page on Twitter. I mean, X. Thank you. God bless.
The last mercurial, NPD/BPD female I got involved with after a long drought played me like a fiddle. Thousands and thousands of dollars later, and an accusation of criminal activity I would not ever even dream of, I managed to get out of it unscathed. But it could have gone much worse. Men, you owe women NOTHING.
Wow, Tom. You are so so good. I am in such awe of you. And I feel so so very grateful, for your work, courage, strength, and the amazing wisdom you display when giving advice, just like you did on this video with Ulysses, saying THE MOST PERFECT THING to him when he shared about his sense of guilt.
Sadly, this is very typical of the behavior of a large number of women. Frankly...the problem is so wide spread that we need to pass a constitutional amendment making false accusations a death penalty offense for not only the accuser but any advocate, advisor or lawyer that knowingly aids and abets a false accuser. Frankly...women demonstrate more and more why Muslim Sharia law disregards the testimony of women relative to that of men.
Perfectly put, and couldn’t agree more (except the DEATH penalty - jeeez, Sadredin…come on… that’s a bit too much, no? 😅😅).
But yeah, totally agree, the phenomenon is so widespread now that we need constitutional amendments to punish false accusations, which clearly and widely destroy lives and waste tax payers money.
Why is it too harsh? If, as feminists claim, false accusations are so rare as to be practically nonexistent then there is nothing to fear. If false accusations are as common as we all know they are..then extreme measures are required to put a stop the harm they are causing. Don't want to face the risk...don't make a false accusation.
You are 100% correct however a few years in prison would be sufficient unfortunately w0e-MEN are not held accountable for their crimes which is why I understand your zeal. The bigger problem is judges & juries who are now like the Jerry Springer show. Unfortunately, the death penalty cannot fix stupid and cannot fix the ingrained gyno-centrism and bias against MEN in the legal system. What we're doing here & elsewhere is the only way considering judges & juries are more the problem than the w0e-MEN themselves.
Ok I will tellyou more. I was living in my own home a very beautful architect designed home in Avoca Beach. My husbands mother and my mother got ill at the same time. My husband had to live with his mother and take car eof her. after 3 years of doing this commuting and strain on our business. ( architecture ) I was also struggling. He reached breaking point, I couldnt reach him he was so shut down and couldnt talk. Yes people run away form you. He attacked me on night just lashed out and grabbed me around th neck. threw me on the ground. He was not in his body at this time he was disassociated. I was so scared, I left the home that night with our daughter who did not want to come with me. I went to a girlfriends house all my girlfriends are feminists. I had no support and the next mornig i went to the police station in Terrigal. I didnt understand the process I thought it woudl be the end of that behaviour I didnt want to split up though. It was not a hige screaming fight just a strained situation. I was scared and alone. The police man siad this si what happens blah blah. They came back home with me as I had no cloths, wallet or anything. My daughter was in her pajamas. I wanted to get help for my husband.
We went to court and also a psychologist who was not helpful she was on my side not his. I pulled her up on this and walked out did not pay the bill. It was costing me several thousand dollars. Its an industry.
Cut out after the court stuff we agreed to see a counselor as the police prosecutor and the women in the DV court clinic were man hating abusers them selves. They wanted to nail his ass not help him and I was shocked.
I got out of there ASAP.
I was still living in our home and looking after our daughter I still thought this is all going away and I can live my life with my family. That did not happen.
Its a long story and I would love to tell it. You would be amazed at what happened next. I was working ina jail rehabilitating and helping men in jail who were awaiting court hearings for DV. How ironic but true.
I have been estranged for our daughter who does nt have the whole story and blames me like the family does. Its struggle and yesterday after renting f =or 10 year i have been evicted. I have a cat ( the family could not look after and two cavoodle dogs who became my family. after I was thrown out of our home I looked after and cherished.
God it is devastating. do you want to interview me ? I did a share on this on a jungian chanel a few years ago. Its on UTube.
My husband would not speak to me for4 years then something changed. I’m now being evicted from my rental so have to focus on finding a roof over my head for me two dogs and family cat that also got rehomed but came back to me.
Yes agree, agressive womens voices drown out the real issue around domestic violence. Women have swollowed the rhetoric as have judges, police and psychologists. They cant unravel the pain and suffering that a broken family creates. Look at Craig Mclachlan. ( friend )
The rhetoric has been recylied over three decades the govt just keeps pratting on about it. It goe s into the subconscious of women and they then teach this to their daughters and the list goes on. It also starts in school for kids. The breakdown of a loving family, whats worst ? I think for women the answer is being vulnerable really. Asking questions and being curious but women through feminism have been trained to fight.
Hey Tom, unfortunately these stories are all to common. The feminist agenda that demonises men has caused a huge gender bias from law enforcement to the “justice” system. It is hard enough dealing with the abuse from your intimate partner, but when you need support and society turns its head, that causes a whole new level of alienation which I’m sure has caused many an innocent man to end their life.
For me my wife made a false statement to police, her interview even proved her own perjury describing events differently, she should have written cheat notes on her palm. She however knew exactly how to play the gender card, even mentioning that I was a man and was much stronger than her.
The officer taking her statement was pathetic, he asked leading questions, filling in the gaps where she couldn’t describe events in any detail. More amazing was the officer needed to prepare a summary of the interview and attest to its accuracy or face perjury. In it he completely exaggerated the incident and in fact used his own leading question to describe what he thought happened, not what she actually said. Actually I quote his question and her response.
Officer: “Obviously you were standing and he pushed you on to the sofa?”
The response: “I can’t remember exactly”
But in the officers summary he claimed I grabbed the victim by both arms and threw the victim to the sofa.
Oh there is so much more. Ignoring my injuries, my counter claims and absolutely no investigation was conducted. The officer even claimed I “admitted” to pushing her into a window in my recorded interview when no such admission was made.
This summary was then sent to the prosecution as proof the allegations were valid and they could proceed with charges that had a maximum penalty of 10 years jail.
The case was then later dropped and the police ordered to pay costs when my lovely wife sent a nasty message confirming she was indeed the violent one, but she has a good reason apparently.
Now without the funds to pursue civil damages I am going through the police complaints process. I don’t want to keep my hopes up there as police in my jurisdiction investigate themselves. However since the misconduct is based on official documents all they can do is try to minimises their mistakes, but acknowledge them they must. So I guess now — anything they say or do, can and will be used against them in court — when I can afford to pay for it.
Damn. All too common indeed. Good for your for sticking with it and holding the police accountable. I wonder what the statute of limitations is for false accusations? Are you in the US?
No, I’m in the man hating capital of the world, Melbourne Australia. We have police policies littered with gynocentrist terminology because of pressure by militant feminists. One of the charges levelled against me was, recklessly causing injury of a female. No such charge exists for females which indicates in the law’s eyes assaulting a female is considered worse. Perhaps I would have even supported such a law, that is until I faced it. That is too often why men don’t stand up against this sort of thing, we are brought up to protect women and blindly support any policy that does the same until we are impacted by the very policies so many men blindly support.
Every man wants to play Big Brave White Knight in front of women in order to receive their approval. It is pathetic, but that is how we are conditioned.
Men only face the truth about women when they are impacted sufficiently that they cannot keep their eyes closed anymore.
Incredible story, Paul. Thanks so much for sharing it. My heart goes out to you completely. What an ordeal. I wouldn’t have a fraction of the strength it takes to persevere and resist in such a situation. I massively congratulate you on your strength and integrity. You’re in my prayers and I hope you carry on your just, noble, necessary fight. THANK YOU.
My sons life was completely destroyed by a false allegation. He lost custody of his son, lost his career and nearly took his life. He was found not guilty and she was found not credible. He is but one of dozens of men who she has accused of sexual assault. No consequences for her. There must be consequences for false allegations. I post this as a Me Too survivor.
WHERE were the consequences for the crime she committed against your son?
This is why I left the U.S. When some princess made spurious allegations against me, and the cops found no evidence of the allegation, there were NO consequences for the lies told by the women.
They just tra la la'd along in their privileged lives, like royalty, which is exactly what females are in the U.S. PUBLIC FUNDS were expended to investigate and resolve their lies. NO consequences, because female. Well, eff that.
The legal system essentially is a tool of the Amerikan woman. May she be judged by God for her deceit and iniquity.
I am a Canadian. My son told me many of his friends stopped dating due to this fear.
No consequences! My friend James attended high school with her . He said” she has been accusing men of assault for decades. She should be in jail.” In my small Canadian community she has ruined at least a dozen men’s lives before my son was targeted and 3 more since. In court previous accusations are not admissible. Nor is her mental health status. She is obviously severely mentally ill. .
And this is the damage done by just ONE female, because their feminist societies do not hold them to consequences for their actions.
They are children, essentially. Without adult responsibility. But simultaneously they want to be -- and have been -- given authority and power over men.
So true. God bless your son.
I had three experiences of false allegations when I lived in the U.S. Basically, women using the feminist court system to intimidate and terrorize. Women have become experts in utilizing the legal system as a mafia enforcer against men. Both profit economically thereby.
One of the incidents resulted in (false) imprisonment. After Ms. Amerika put chains on my hands and feet for the crime of not obeying her commands, I knew I was done forever with that evil bitch.
In my adopted country I am respected, honored and even loved. Quite a change from being a walking target in the U.S. I feel bad for other men and boys still trapped in the gyno-nations.
Great that you have found a place that respects you. You are correct that that is something most men in the US simply don't have.
Thank you, Tom. Most men in the US have much more than me financially and materially, but as you say, they must live without being respected and honored because their feminist nation will not allow that.
Also, they must live with the reality that they may be accused and incarcerated at any moment, merely on the whim of some female. That is a heavy price to have your own home, lawn and so forth.
I have said it before; however, it bears REPEATING: FALSE ALLEGATION should carry with it, THE SAME PUNISHMENT as the crime being FALSELY ACCUSED. There should be NO NEED to file a charge of PERJURY, as this gentleman did. It should not even require a full trial; that has already happened, only an official HEARING, with a reevaluation of evidence and complaint.
Couldn’t agree more. Thanks for putting it so clearly, Eric.
My son was falsely accused of rape. We are a "best case scenario", that is charges dismissed, but he has an arrest on his record that will never go away, while his accuser has walked away with no consequences. Like Ulysses, this has become a life's mission to raise awareness and help people who are having to deal with this. Shared. Also, check out www.theaffa.org if you want to connect.
Thanks for this Dawn. Glad to hear your son is working to raise awareness and to see he is a part of DAVIA.
Thank you Dawn, for sharing, and for your courage, end efforts. I just joined your fb page but wondered if you’re also on Twitter, where I can be most active re: promoting/sharing etc etc? I couldn’t find the page on Twitter. I mean, X. Thank you. God bless.
Sorry I just saw this. Don't currently have the bandwidth to do Twitter. I have a personal account, but the group isn't there yet.
"The Family Terrorist" Erin Pizzey "Working with Violent Women".
"Female bullies, as they mature, become much more refined in their technique" Eeva Sodhi.
The last mercurial, NPD/BPD female I got involved with after a long drought played me like a fiddle. Thousands and thousands of dollars later, and an accusation of criminal activity I would not ever even dream of, I managed to get out of it unscathed. But it could have gone much worse. Men, you owe women NOTHING.
Wow, Tom. You are so so good. I am in such awe of you. And I feel so so very grateful, for your work, courage, strength, and the amazing wisdom you display when giving advice, just like you did on this video with Ulysses, saying THE MOST PERFECT THING to him when he shared about his sense of guilt.
Bravo, sir. You carry the flame of hope for us.
THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU.
Thank you Luca for such kind words. Appreciate it.
Sadly, this is very typical of the behavior of a large number of women. Frankly...the problem is so wide spread that we need to pass a constitutional amendment making false accusations a death penalty offense for not only the accuser but any advocate, advisor or lawyer that knowingly aids and abets a false accuser. Frankly...women demonstrate more and more why Muslim Sharia law disregards the testimony of women relative to that of men.
Perfectly put, and couldn’t agree more (except the DEATH penalty - jeeez, Sadredin…come on… that’s a bit too much, no? 😅😅).
But yeah, totally agree, the phenomenon is so widespread now that we need constitutional amendments to punish false accusations, which clearly and widely destroy lives and waste tax payers money.
Why is it too harsh? If, as feminists claim, false accusations are so rare as to be practically nonexistent then there is nothing to fear. If false accusations are as common as we all know they are..then extreme measures are required to put a stop the harm they are causing. Don't want to face the risk...don't make a false accusation.
You are 100% correct however a few years in prison would be sufficient unfortunately w0e-MEN are not held accountable for their crimes which is why I understand your zeal. The bigger problem is judges & juries who are now like the Jerry Springer show. Unfortunately, the death penalty cannot fix stupid and cannot fix the ingrained gyno-centrism and bias against MEN in the legal system. What we're doing here & elsewhere is the only way considering judges & juries are more the problem than the w0e-MEN themselves.
Sadly true...in the short term. In the long term...women are digging their own hole because men will eventually be done with them entirely.
Death is too quick, years in prison would prolong the pain and suffering she inflicted on her target.
Yes, agree that it may be too harsh but just imagine how it would stop false accusations quickly. Very quickly
Ditto: add inlaws to the formula of abuse.
Ok I will tellyou more. I was living in my own home a very beautful architect designed home in Avoca Beach. My husbands mother and my mother got ill at the same time. My husband had to live with his mother and take car eof her. after 3 years of doing this commuting and strain on our business. ( architecture ) I was also struggling. He reached breaking point, I couldnt reach him he was so shut down and couldnt talk. Yes people run away form you. He attacked me on night just lashed out and grabbed me around th neck. threw me on the ground. He was not in his body at this time he was disassociated. I was so scared, I left the home that night with our daughter who did not want to come with me. I went to a girlfriends house all my girlfriends are feminists. I had no support and the next mornig i went to the police station in Terrigal. I didnt understand the process I thought it woudl be the end of that behaviour I didnt want to split up though. It was not a hige screaming fight just a strained situation. I was scared and alone. The police man siad this si what happens blah blah. They came back home with me as I had no cloths, wallet or anything. My daughter was in her pajamas. I wanted to get help for my husband.
We went to court and also a psychologist who was not helpful she was on my side not his. I pulled her up on this and walked out did not pay the bill. It was costing me several thousand dollars. Its an industry.
Cut out after the court stuff we agreed to see a counselor as the police prosecutor and the women in the DV court clinic were man hating abusers them selves. They wanted to nail his ass not help him and I was shocked.
I got out of there ASAP.
I was still living in our home and looking after our daughter I still thought this is all going away and I can live my life with my family. That did not happen.
Its a long story and I would love to tell it. You would be amazed at what happened next. I was working ina jail rehabilitating and helping men in jail who were awaiting court hearings for DV. How ironic but true.
I have been estranged for our daughter who does nt have the whole story and blames me like the family does. Its struggle and yesterday after renting f =or 10 year i have been evicted. I have a cat ( the family could not look after and two cavoodle dogs who became my family. after I was thrown out of our home I looked after and cherished.
God it is devastating. do you want to interview me ? I did a share on this on a jungian chanel a few years ago. Its on UTube.
Sorry you had to go through that. The DV laws are not only anti male, they are anti family and strive to separate and blame. It is evil.
It is bu t the evil is within use all.
My husband would not speak to me for4 years then something changed. I’m now being evicted from my rental so have to focus on finding a roof over my head for me two dogs and family cat that also got rehomed but came back to me.
Yes agree, agressive womens voices drown out the real issue around domestic violence. Women have swollowed the rhetoric as have judges, police and psychologists. They cant unravel the pain and suffering that a broken family creates. Look at Craig Mclachlan. ( friend )
The rhetoric has been recylied over three decades the govt just keeps pratting on about it. It goe s into the subconscious of women and they then teach this to their daughters and the list goes on. It also starts in school for kids. The breakdown of a loving family, whats worst ? I think for women the answer is being vulnerable really. Asking questions and being curious but women through feminism have been trained to fight.
Every case is unique. Nuanced.
I have noticed over the years women are aggressive overthink. As a response to the pain and emotional turmoil that ensues.
BRAVO! More MEN need to SUE w0e-MEN who make false accusations.
And the same goes in Australia 🤨