She is AMAZING ! I have seen some of her shorts and wow. Great job getting her on, Tom ! I was wondering if she is religious at all ? When I heard her shorts I always assumed wow she must be Christian. This didn’t come up in your interview but I wonder if you have any insight on that question ?
Thank you for your kind words, Joyful Joe. While a bit unorthodox, I do consider myself a Christian. You can learn more about my journey with God in this episode, Where Did God Go In Marriage: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4HNT2W_fmp0&t=1088s
I’m honored with your reply Karyn thank you so much 🙏🏻 . A few gentlemen friends of mine have shared your shorts with me and we are all so grateful for your perspective
I am a 29-year-old black woman and I really enjoy Karen’s content. I really resonate with Karen‘s message. Looking at oneself is really the hardest thing to do. It’s so easy to blame my past my parents and my upbringing for who I am today. I realized it’s just who I am. Its sin has caused me to be like this as well. I really would like to get married one day Lord willing. I I do not want to get into marriage to make a man miserable. That’s like the worst thing ever. I would hate to repeat my parents marriage. God forbid. Being honest with oneself is definitely how to start being better. Your message resonates with me, Karen because my pastor Gino Jennings always preachers to look at oneself. That’s the only way we will ever change to be better. I want to be a helpmate for my husband, not at Ball and Chain. I wanna see my husband happy not regretful because he married me. I don’t want him to come home from work and sit in the car for a couple of hours because if he comes inside, it won’t be good. My dad and I watch you my dad always encourages me to watch you. Thanks, Karen.
Naomi, you are a special woman to look at yourself and be willing to take responsibility for who you are. "Being honest with oneself is definitely how to start being better." - Spot on.
I also think it's really neat that you can take your dad's encouragement to watch my content. :)
"Marriage was a patriarchial construct designed to keep women oppressed".
I fell for that hook line and sinker, and thought to myself I just needed to find out what it was that I as a man was oppressing women and I would be the perfect partner. How painful is reality.
The desire to have a happy partner and bending over backwards to try and make her happy without success. Yeah I know what that was like.
This is a very important podcast and offers a bit of hope that there may be a long term solution to the problem. It is hard to solve problems when the causes are misidentified and the fact that some women are finally realizing that it is women...not men...who are the source of the increasing societal dysfunction is a step in the right direction. Sadly, that realization is up against the powerful forces of feminism which are actually really just a front for something that I have seen called the Spirit of Jezzebel!. (Note author's realization that she was the problem in her marriage came she says as a result of divine intervention.) Unfortunately, I agree with the author that only about 25% of women are capable of the emotional maturation and awakening required to address this problem. This leaves the majority of women as irredeemable in a society that enables their conduct. So...what is the solution? Men will continue to disengage from all women as the odds of interacting with an irredeemable one are 3 out of 4! That means the ball remains in the court of the 25% of women who may actually be sane. Society may end up having to resolve the problem systemically in a different way. Muslim societies resolved this problem by developing Sharia Law (hardly a good thing for a society but demonstrably addressing the conduct that women seem so prone to engaging in). Let us remember the fate of Jezzebel was not empowerment of women...it was dumping her out a window to her death.
I was surprised at Karyn's estimate of 25% of women who were able to hold themselves accountable. I don't think she commented on whether the other 75% would be able to shift. I am guessing she would take an optimistic stance on that.
She is AMAZING ! I have seen some of her shorts and wow. Great job getting her on, Tom ! I was wondering if she is religious at all ? When I heard her shorts I always assumed wow she must be Christian. This didn’t come up in your interview but I wonder if you have any insight on that question ?
I agree with your assessment. She is an honest and loving woman who tells the truth. Can't ask for more. I am not sure of her religious background.
Thank you for your kind words, Joyful Joe. While a bit unorthodox, I do consider myself a Christian. You can learn more about my journey with God in this episode, Where Did God Go In Marriage: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4HNT2W_fmp0&t=1088s
I’m honored with your reply Karyn thank you so much 🙏🏻 . A few gentlemen friends of mine have shared your shorts with me and we are all so grateful for your perspective
Thank you, Tom and Karyn. This is excellent.
Oh wow! Great catch, Tom!!! Amazing woman, I've only seen her YT shorts up to now, all impressive, posted a few links https://j4mb.org.uk/?s=happy+wife+school.
This is going to be a treat, I'll post the link after I've watched the video. Thanks.
Mike Buchanan
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Mike, thank you so much for sharing and supporting my work.
Thanks Kayrn. Watching your material should be compulsory for married couples and those thinking of marrying.
Thanks Mike, glad you enjoyed it. She is truly a breath of fresh air and helped me in understanding the dynamics that men often face.
I am a 29-year-old black woman and I really enjoy Karen’s content. I really resonate with Karen‘s message. Looking at oneself is really the hardest thing to do. It’s so easy to blame my past my parents and my upbringing for who I am today. I realized it’s just who I am. Its sin has caused me to be like this as well. I really would like to get married one day Lord willing. I I do not want to get into marriage to make a man miserable. That’s like the worst thing ever. I would hate to repeat my parents marriage. God forbid. Being honest with oneself is definitely how to start being better. Your message resonates with me, Karen because my pastor Gino Jennings always preachers to look at oneself. That’s the only way we will ever change to be better. I want to be a helpmate for my husband, not at Ball and Chain. I wanna see my husband happy not regretful because he married me. I don’t want him to come home from work and sit in the car for a couple of hours because if he comes inside, it won’t be good. My dad and I watch you my dad always encourages me to watch you. Thanks, Karen.
Naomi, you are a special woman to look at yourself and be willing to take responsibility for who you are. "Being honest with oneself is definitely how to start being better." - Spot on.
I also think it's really neat that you can take your dad's encouragement to watch my content. :)
"Marriage was a patriarchial construct designed to keep women oppressed".
I fell for that hook line and sinker, and thought to myself I just needed to find out what it was that I as a man was oppressing women and I would be the perfect partner. How painful is reality.
The desire to have a happy partner and bending over backwards to try and make her happy without success. Yeah I know what that was like.
Thank you for being a skilled and thoughtful interviewer, Tom. I look forward to another collaboration soon.
It was a joy to be with you Karyn and I look forward to doing more and hearing your take on the woman's perspective.
Reminds me of Cassie Jaye's journey.
She was told to be a victim. But she was a genuine good hearted woman and her curiosity and insights made her change her attitude.
She is happy now. Some ideologues not.
Agree. It made me think of Cassie also.
This is a very important podcast and offers a bit of hope that there may be a long term solution to the problem. It is hard to solve problems when the causes are misidentified and the fact that some women are finally realizing that it is women...not men...who are the source of the increasing societal dysfunction is a step in the right direction. Sadly, that realization is up against the powerful forces of feminism which are actually really just a front for something that I have seen called the Spirit of Jezzebel!. (Note author's realization that she was the problem in her marriage came she says as a result of divine intervention.) Unfortunately, I agree with the author that only about 25% of women are capable of the emotional maturation and awakening required to address this problem. This leaves the majority of women as irredeemable in a society that enables their conduct. So...what is the solution? Men will continue to disengage from all women as the odds of interacting with an irredeemable one are 3 out of 4! That means the ball remains in the court of the 25% of women who may actually be sane. Society may end up having to resolve the problem systemically in a different way. Muslim societies resolved this problem by developing Sharia Law (hardly a good thing for a society but demonstrably addressing the conduct that women seem so prone to engaging in). Let us remember the fate of Jezzebel was not empowerment of women...it was dumping her out a window to her death.
I was surprised at Karyn's estimate of 25% of women who were able to hold themselves accountable. I don't think she commented on whether the other 75% would be able to shift. I am guessing she would take an optimistic stance on that.
Possible that she rounded up a bit.But maybe not so much. Since she experienced it herself and knows how to talk to women.
Please launch a dating app!
Hi Tom,
Have you seen Erin Byrd on Youtube? I hope you can interview her. She is a former feminist that now speaks out on feminism and related topics.
https://www.youtube.com/@erinbyrd5377
Yes, I think I tried contacting her and was unsuccessful.