Men learn--are taught--to sacrifice from an early age. The conditioning has its downside but it can also bring with it some stoicism, i.e., enduring short-term discomfort and stress for a long-term goal. This conditioning can turn into a burden, but it can also be a tremendous advantage. It require good faith and optimism and persistence. Many people I know have what as I see as a TV-advertisement idea of happiness, a beer, a laugh, a game. I think that, in more than one way, we have to work to be happy. I thought this was a very good post, refreshing and positive.
A lot of truth here. A couple suggestions to add...
1. It's time to make a prenuptial agreement standard in marriages and make them very clear that both parties are responsible for their own post separation expenses in full and put as strong rules about the children/child support as you can to protect each side from the other.
2. A good rule to practice on dating early in the process is to determine (perhaps by asking directly) if the person would have dated you when each of you was 25. If the woman cannot honestly answer that in a convincing affirmative, don't waste time on her. (This is a strategy with jobs as well. When a company chooses you as their "second" choice only after their first choice rejects them, you should be very hesitant in saying yes. It is likely just a short term strategic attempt to use you while they wait for a better candidate to come along.)
3. Be polite and appropriate to women generally, but make it clear that you are OFF the market generally by keeping a strong distance from the dating scene. It's time women did the work of asking and risking rejection.
4. Don't put up with any feminist attitude from women. As soon as it emerges make clear that such conduct is a deal breaker and be willing to leave the feminist to cry on the shoulders of her miserable friends.
Of course not. You have to work to get the information out of her by seeing the type of people she dated/things she did etc. If you aren't in the demographic she seemed to be dating you kind of have your answer.
The problem is that any judge having a bad day can ignore your prenup for any reason whatsoever. Prenups are better than nothing but are often thrown out because the aren't "fair"
Hand her the Roman Catholic catechism: "This is our prenup." If she won't agree, walk away. If she agrees, and files for divorce ten years later, counter with annulment, as the union was false.
I often remind young indoctrinated women, who are taught that they can purchase anything on or in a man's body with a credit card, that 'selective breeding' is not a wise option. Men, who are unprincipled enough to provide sperm for a price and nothing else are sociopaths. And, that the apple doesn't fall far from its tree.
I remember during the "pandemic", single women went around saying that they wanted "purebloods", meaning men that had not taken the covid vaccine shots, to father a baby for them. The simps were lining up around the block, thinking it would be easy pussy. It completely escaped them that they would be paying child support for the next 20 years
"One man told me, “She woke up one day and decided to break up with me after ten years because she wasn’t getting that “Feeling" anymore. "
I think Warren Farrell referred to that in The Myth of Male Power: that one of the main reasons that women filed for divorce is that they felt "unfulfilled".
Sadly, in a society as degraded and hopeless as ours, the best woman you can meet—if you haven’t guessed already—is a prostitute."
Funny you should say that. I have come to precisely that conclusion myself. And, interestingly enough, the Las Vegas brothels have Websites and contact information whereby one may make an appointment at some future date. A plane ride, an overnight stay once every quarter or half-year, a little slap-and-tickle ... then it's OVER. No drama, no late-night phone calls, no sets of children by several different men to deal with - and, when taking into account the overall expense of a "relationship" - and God forbid, the expense of a marriage-and-divorce, it's a bargain, too! What's not to like?
Would I like to have a wife? You bet, but one with whom I share a lifetime of experiences - of peaceful days and torrid nights, of children and grandchildren and great-grandchildren. But I would not search now, and given "family" courts - not to mention three generations of Western women steeped in Toxic Feminism, I would certainly not look in the West; the risk/reward ratio is just too high. I might consider someone from Eastern Europe or Asia.
Lonely? No, not at all. I enjoy my property and my peace more than I can express. As I age, I keep track of Musk's Optimus robot, which is slated to be ready for general household chores, including elder-care, in two years, sex robots are predicted for five years out; one thing is for sure: with them, trust won't be an issue.
On Youtube, "Tribe of Men" has a channel. I think he is an American that expatriated to Romania, or someplace else in eastern Europe. He describes the night and day difference between American women and Eastern European women.
I watch him occasionally. He has a good walk-around in Bucharest, and it looks beautiful - clean, safe. Unfortunately, typical eastern European political instability is at play; they just "invalidated" an election that elected someone the political rulers didn't like. Can't go there, it looks like ....
Men learn--are taught--to sacrifice from an early age. The conditioning has its downside but it can also bring with it some stoicism, i.e., enduring short-term discomfort and stress for a long-term goal. This conditioning can turn into a burden, but it can also be a tremendous advantage. It require good faith and optimism and persistence. Many people I know have what as I see as a TV-advertisement idea of happiness, a beer, a laugh, a game. I think that, in more than one way, we have to work to be happy. I thought this was a very good post, refreshing and positive.
A lot of truth here. A couple suggestions to add...
1. It's time to make a prenuptial agreement standard in marriages and make them very clear that both parties are responsible for their own post separation expenses in full and put as strong rules about the children/child support as you can to protect each side from the other.
2. A good rule to practice on dating early in the process is to determine (perhaps by asking directly) if the person would have dated you when each of you was 25. If the woman cannot honestly answer that in a convincing affirmative, don't waste time on her. (This is a strategy with jobs as well. When a company chooses you as their "second" choice only after their first choice rejects them, you should be very hesitant in saying yes. It is likely just a short term strategic attempt to use you while they wait for a better candidate to come along.)
3. Be polite and appropriate to women generally, but make it clear that you are OFF the market generally by keeping a strong distance from the dating scene. It's time women did the work of asking and risking rejection.
4. Don't put up with any feminist attitude from women. As soon as it emerges make clear that such conduct is a deal breaker and be willing to leave the feminist to cry on the shoulders of her miserable friends.
A woman will never say if you were 25 i would have dated you:) she will say what will server her goal.
Of course not. You have to work to get the information out of her by seeing the type of people she dated/things she did etc. If you aren't in the demographic she seemed to be dating you kind of have your answer.
The problem is that any judge having a bad day can ignore your prenup for any reason whatsoever. Prenups are better than nothing but are often thrown out because the aren't "fair"
Hand her the Roman Catholic catechism: "This is our prenup." If she won't agree, walk away. If she agrees, and files for divorce ten years later, counter with annulment, as the union was false.
agreed.
Many men have gone to the Phillipines to find a wife. But they make the mistake of bringing them back to the States, where they then become feminists.
Women affect other women easily. If your woman hangs with the wrong women, then you will pay for that.
I often remind young indoctrinated women, who are taught that they can purchase anything on or in a man's body with a credit card, that 'selective breeding' is not a wise option. Men, who are unprincipled enough to provide sperm for a price and nothing else are sociopaths. And, that the apple doesn't fall far from its tree.
I remember during the "pandemic", single women went around saying that they wanted "purebloods", meaning men that had not taken the covid vaccine shots, to father a baby for them. The simps were lining up around the block, thinking it would be easy pussy. It completely escaped them that they would be paying child support for the next 20 years
"One man told me, “She woke up one day and decided to break up with me after ten years because she wasn’t getting that “Feeling" anymore. "
I think Warren Farrell referred to that in The Myth of Male Power: that one of the main reasons that women filed for divorce is that they felt "unfulfilled".
When you give emotions and fluctuating moods the power in society, that what happens.
Sadly, in a society as degraded and hopeless as ours, the best woman you can meet—if you haven’t guessed already—is a prostitute."
Funny you should say that. I have come to precisely that conclusion myself. And, interestingly enough, the Las Vegas brothels have Websites and contact information whereby one may make an appointment at some future date. A plane ride, an overnight stay once every quarter or half-year, a little slap-and-tickle ... then it's OVER. No drama, no late-night phone calls, no sets of children by several different men to deal with - and, when taking into account the overall expense of a "relationship" - and God forbid, the expense of a marriage-and-divorce, it's a bargain, too! What's not to like?
That just sounds...lonely. But then, as you may point out in response, all the other options are equally lonely.
Would I like to have a wife? You bet, but one with whom I share a lifetime of experiences - of peaceful days and torrid nights, of children and grandchildren and great-grandchildren. But I would not search now, and given "family" courts - not to mention three generations of Western women steeped in Toxic Feminism, I would certainly not look in the West; the risk/reward ratio is just too high. I might consider someone from Eastern Europe or Asia.
Lonely? No, not at all. I enjoy my property and my peace more than I can express. As I age, I keep track of Musk's Optimus robot, which is slated to be ready for general household chores, including elder-care, in two years, sex robots are predicted for five years out; one thing is for sure: with them, trust won't be an issue.
On Youtube, "Tribe of Men" has a channel. I think he is an American that expatriated to Romania, or someplace else in eastern Europe. He describes the night and day difference between American women and Eastern European women.
I watch him occasionally. He has a good walk-around in Bucharest, and it looks beautiful - clean, safe. Unfortunately, typical eastern European political instability is at play; they just "invalidated" an election that elected someone the political rulers didn't like. Can't go there, it looks like ....